Individuals!
We come in every shape and size; we have our own histories, our own unique mix of family, cultural and generational influences; we like and dislike different things; we have our little quirks and foibles; we're motivated by different things; we each respond to a unique mix of managing & developing.... and your job is to manage AND develop us - whether we like it or not!
That's a tough gig!
Somehow, though you're no doubt busy and juggling multiple demands from various sources, you need to make time for us.
We ARE your job - we're not an interruption! We need you to make time for us... talk to us... set clear expectations about our attendance, behaviour and performance - and equally, be clear with us about what we can - and should - expect of you. Get organised to ensure that we have what we need, when we need it, to do the job right, first time... we'd like you to get to know us...how we tick, what we enjoy and what drains, frustrates, bores, blocks and demotivates us - we'd like you act on that information, and enable us do work we're proud of, work that's appreciated, work that makes a difference, work that's no more difficult or tedious or dangerous than it has to be... that's what will motivate us.
We'd like you, every now and then, to ask us, how you can be a better manager - listen, take some notes, say 'thanks' when we answer (don't argue!!) ...just think about what we say and try to do something - just ONE thing - about it. Then follow up to let us know what you've been doing about it, to find out if you've made a difference.... and to ask if there's anything else you can help with.
Occasionally, you may need to remind us about what we're expected to do, what we're paid to do, where the boundaries are... if you've done all the stuff above, we'll take it... just as long as you do it without getting all parental, preachy or teachy.... please!
If you don't do all this strategically, consistently and well... we lose focus, motivation and commitment, or we start to pick & choose what we do to suit ourselves instead of the business, we feel neglected, or resentful or confused, we develop bad habits, we start to think we're better - or worse - than we are, or we lose trust in you, we... well you know what we do!
Check out the post on Managing AND Developing Individuals for one model on how to do all this... it's coming in the next few days
(I'd like to acknowledge the influence on my thinking of Eric Berne, Thomas Gordon, Linda Adams, John Powell, Jean Illsley-Clarke & Marshall Goldsmith)
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