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CLASH!
Could Cultural Difference Be An Issue Here?

We differ from each other in MANY ways.

Even if we're not racist, we may experience problems when these differences are not recognised, understood and & appreciated, these differences can lead to frustrations, misunderstandings and conflict. The workplace can become stressful and unproductive.

On the flip-side, recognition, understanding and appreciation of the ways and reasons we differ enables harmony and synergy in our work relations.

But how can you tell when a lack of cultural understanding is a problem?

We've designed two questionnaires that may help you tell if culture is a factor in the difficulties you're encountering at work.

There are two questionnaires - use the first if the person with whom you clash reports to you; use the second if the person with whom you clash is a peer/teammate or someone to whom you report.

A. If you supervise or work in a peer or team relationship to this person:
Indicate whether the following statements are true for you

I find this person
YES
NO
lacking in initiative - s/he won't act unless instructions/directions/requests are specific and detailed    
technically incompetent - everything has to be explained and s/he never suggests any solutions when problems arise    
over-reacts to feedback    
vague, putting off decisions or changing his/her mind even after a decision's made    
overly dependent - s/he's always coming to me for answers to questions s/he should know    
6
too formal & takes forever to get started/get to know    
7
wants everything in writing/puts everything in writing to cover her/his backside    
8
overly interested in/interferes in teammates' work & responsibilities    
9
overly concerned with 'staying in good' with his/her peers    
10
unassertive - won't speak up for him/herself    
11
unwilling or unable to think for him/herself    
12
sometimes surprisingly arrogant, abrupt, rude or demanding with those further down the pecking order than him/her    
13
obsessive about time - runs her life by the clock    
14
impossible to believe - yes means, maybe, no means maybe - wants to revisit & change any decision or agreement any time it suits her/him     
15
has formed a little clique with one or two others like her/him    
16 
started off on the wrong foot and has never recovered    
17 
a loose cannon - s/he authorises her/himself to do whatever s/he wants    
18 
uncommunicative - I never know what s/he's up to unless I ask or I only find out AFTER what s/he's been up to    
19
doesn't respond to feedback    
20
not a team player- doesn his/her own thing and to heck with everyone else    
21
put everyone off by being rude at first meeting & has just gotten worse since    
22
refuses to reconsider anything once it's decided - closed book    
23
blunt and undiplomatic- lacking in respect for those more senior    
24
unmanageable - s/he seems to think s/he can do whatever s/he wants without consulting or checking with me    
25
makes up his/her own rules or bends ignores rules to suit    
26
doesn't seem to take written instructions/contracts seriously    
27
a gambler - s/he takes too many risks and doesn't seem to care about the consequences    
28
insensitive to and careless about her/his impact on colleagues    
29 too assertive - even aggressive and undiplomatic when dealing with bosses    
30
constantly or frequently challenging, questioning and rebelling    
31
embarrassingly arrogant, abrupt, rude or demanding with those higher up the pecking order    
32
completely useless when it comes to time - consistently late and slow    
33

doesn't attend to the niceties when introduced to people

   
34 generally unresponsive to a leadership/interpersonal style that works well in most of my other relationships    
35 is a mystery to me - it's like s/he's from another planet - I don't know what makes her/him tick    
36 has a different cultural/national/ethnic background to me    
TOTALS
   

B. If this person is your boss or if you are in some other sort of subordinate role to this person:
Indicate whether the following statements are true for you

I find this person
YES NO
is a micromanager - s/he wants me to report on every little thing I'm doing    
unwilling to listen or take advice - as if she knows everything; s/he's threatened or gets defensive/hostile when challenged or questioned    
stupid - makes decisions even when s/he doesn't know what s/he's talking about - it's like because s/he's the boss s/he's gotta be the one who knows/decides    
overly status conscious and formal    
a control freak - I can't do ANYTHING without his/her permission    
6
patronising - acts as if s/he's better than us, treats us as if we're kids or idiots    
7
terrified of risk - wants everything in writing with contracts, back-up plans and procedures for everything    
8
lacks guts - too concerned with covering her/his backside    
9
takes forever talking small talk before getting down to business    
10
acts as if we're stupid - s/he details everything we have to do and doesn't leave any room for us to think for ourselves    
11
inflexible & rule-bound - does everything by the letter of the law rather than recognising when and where to bend or go around the rules    
12
arrogant, abrupt, rude or demanding - a bully - to those further down the pecking order but always 'sucking up' and 'staying in good' with his/her boss    
13
generally unwilling to trust us or give us an opportunity to exercise initiative    
14
moralistic - into lecturing us and 'shoulding' on us    
15
lazy - spends most of her/his time schmoozing with clients & senior management but expects us to do the work    
16
wants everything in writing and in detail    
17
too concerned with titles and qualifications, what shcools people went to and who they know    
18 
hopeless with time - always late and slow    
19 
impossible to believe - yes means, maybe, no means maybe - wants to revisit & change any decision or agreement any time it suits her/him    
20 
unprofessional - s/he doesn't manage - s/he leaves everything to us    
21
incompetent - s/he is constantly or frequently asking us what s/he should do about things    
22
unhelpful - when we ask for advice or direction s/he puts the question back to us to figure out    
23
gives me unexpected feedback    
24
careless & irresponsible - s/he doesn't seem to want to know what's going on and expects us to take the blame when things go wrong    
25
lacking in dignity - doesn't act like a boss    
26
unwilling to put anything in writing - I never know where I stand with things    
27
a gambler - s/he takes too many risks and leaves too many things to chance    
28
doesn't seem at all interested in getting to know us - just rudely rushes ahead    
29
undiplomatic - frequently puts individuals on the spot, embarrassing us in front of our peers and others    
30
casual to the point of being unprofessional    
31
doesn't show respect when interacting with his/her own bosses    
32
refuses to reconsider anything once it's decided - closed book    
33
obsessed by the clock and efficiency - driven and driving    
34
generally difficult to work with in contrast to other bosses I have had    
35
is a mystery to me - it's like s/he's from another planet - I don't know what makes her tick    
36
has a different cultural/national/ethnic background to me    
TOTALS
   

UNDERSTANDING THE QUESTIONNAIRE
The questionnaire you completed above is based on the observation that we all tend to be somewhat ethnocentric AND THAT we therefore tend to make certain predictable judgements, and to encounter certain predictable difficulties, when we interact with people whose national culture differs from ours.

EthnoWHAT?
Ethnocentrism is the tendency to regard our own culture as superior to others.

This tendency to judge everybody against OUR cultural values and norms causes problems because it can lead us to:

Given the increasing diversity of our world,
acting and interacting
as if there is ONE RIGHT set of values or ONE RIGHT way is bound to cause frictions and conflicts.

On the other side, recognising the SIGNS & SYMPTOMS of ethnocentrism in our relationships, can provide a starting point for building better working relationships.

If you answered YES to a number of questions AND the person SHARES YOUR CULTURAL BACKGROUND... then ethnocentrism is probably not a problem in this relationship.

On the other hand, RELIGIOUS, EDUCATIONAL or PERSONALITY differences combined with EGOCENTRISM may be contributing to your frustrations and diffculties with this person (Egocentrism is the tendency to believe that MY WAY is the ONLY and the RIGHT WAY). Doing some peronal development using FIRO-B or MBTI will probably be of great benefit to you.

If you answered YES to a number of questions AND the person you focused on has a DIFFERENT CULTUTRAL BACKGROUND to you, it is likely that ETHNOCENTRISM may be contributing to your frustrations and diffculties with this person.
The more YES answers, the more likely.

Statements    1 - 16 about the Subordinate        

1- 20 about the Boss

These represent common Ethnocentric- Anglo-Australian perceptions/experiences/judgments of culturally different other

Statements            17 - 33 about the Subordinate      

21- 33 about the Boss

These represent common ethnocentric perceptions/experiences/judgments culturally different others hold in regard to Anglo-Australians.

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Crossing the Cultural Divide!

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Cultural relativism - Understanding that ALL VALUES and JUDGMENTS are right/wrong, good/bad ONLY within a culture and NOT across cultures - is VITAL first step in bridging the cultural divide - in managing and working across cultures.

Discovering how differently others see the world, how different their assumptions, norms and values are can be surprising, perplexing, delightful or disconcerting... it can be the start of rich learning - IF we are willing to acknowledge our ethnocentricity and manage it!

We draw on the work of work of Hofstede (1980, 1997), Hall (1990), Heslin (2000) Laroche (2003) and others to explore key dimensions of difference and to develop practical suggestions for helping you work across the cultural divide.

Here's a sample:

POWER DISTANCE
Power distance refers to the amount of inequality of wealth, status and power regarded as normal and appropriate.

In low power distance cultures (such as Sweden, Norway, Finland, Netherlands, Australia), people are treated pretty much as equals.

In high power distance cultures (such as Philippines, Singapore, Japan, India, Thailand), extreme inequality is expected and accepted, even by those without power.

Power distance influences key aspects of working relationships and is one of the most common causes of 'clashes' between staff and managers from different cultures:

In low power-distance cultures
Managers

Staff

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In high power-distance cultures
Managers

Staff

When interacting

 

Other dimensions we explore in the seminar include:
Collectivism - Individualism
Uncertainty Avoidance
High-Low Context
Time (Chairos and Chronos)
Locus of Control

Come and join us - it's worth the effort to cross the cultural divide... you may even find you and your organisation are richer for it.

You are person number to read this article since 20-10-2003!
Remember to exercise judgment and discretion in choosing whether, when and how to use any of these concepts and suggestions to inform your consideration of issues.

Nothing in this article constitutes advice for specific matters or issues you may be considering - so please ensure that you source appropriate, professional advice on specific matters you confront.

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